“Loneliness and Desperation” is a bluegrass heartbreak song written by Mike Garris. It was introduced on record in the mid-1980s by Del McCoury and the Dixie Pals, the band McCoury led before he reshaped it into the Del McCoury Band.
The lyric maps exactly the emotional ground its title names — the slow grind of a love lost and the lonely, desperate aftermath. That kind of plainspoken, deeply felt sorrow suited Del McCoury’s high, piercing mountain voice, and the song became closely tied to him.
McCoury kept the song in his repertoire for decades, and the Del McCoury Band revisited it on a later retrospective recording. “Loneliness and Desperation” has also been taken up by other bands, and it remains a well-regarded piece of the modern bluegrass songbook.